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两年游玩40多个国家 工作旅行两不误

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两年内游玩40多个国家的夫妇,超令人羡慕(图片来源:instagram/fourhappyfee)
居住在英国达特福德,28岁的桑加姆•班达里(Sangam Bhandari)和妻子什卡•纽帕妮(Shikha Neupane),在每人每年收入约5万英镑,并且需要支付贷款的情况下,几乎每个周末都会飞往一个国家旅行,仅路费每月就要花掉1500英镑。
既不耽误工作,还能享受旅途的美好时光,这样的生活让夫妻二人十分满意。

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Mental health is one of those topic which is discussed widely yet no one is willing to actually consider it when it comes to applying in practice. I am no expert in this field but I do have my fair share of emotional outburst every now and then and trust me, being emotional is not always good nor it's bad, it’s a bit grey. Emotional state of mind can sometimes lead to unnecessary stress and if we do not take control of it, it can guide us to depression. ✨ Being emotional is a great boon, I mean, I love being emotional at times. It allows me to be expressive, it allows me to be romantic, it makes me happy over small things, it makes me caring, it makes me who I am. And other times, it makes me cry over small petty things, it makes me overthink, it makes me come across as aggressive, it makes me impatient, and it too makes me who I am. ✨ I am currently in a balanced state of mind, but I do know how it feels like to lose that balance, and how it can change your moment. I control my emotions by talking to Sam, and it helps. I like being able to express how I feel, and share my concerns with him. Luckily for me, I am only borderline emotional, but if you think you are going through something which makes you feel down all the time, if different things upset you, and you don’t feel like anything is making you happy, you need to understand that this is only temporary. This will pass. You will be happy again and none of these will matter in few months. ✨ Saying your problem out makes it a lot less smaller than you may think it is. Having that one other person know about what you are going through is so powerful. It will make you feel like you are not alone and you don’t have to go through this on your own. Be nice to yourself. Don’t think of yourself as any less than anyone out there. Think of it like this: don’t say mean things about yourself, that you wouldn’t say to your friends and family about them. ✨ Let me end by saying: "Tension is who you think you should be, relaxation is who you are.”

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班达里在伦敦交通运输公司工作,而妻子纽帕妮则在一家IT咨询公司工作,在过去的两年内他们已经去过40多个国家,并且他们相信,即使你的预算是有限的,你也可以这样做。
班达里说,如果你希望享受频繁旅行,那就需要提前计划,以获得最优惠的价格,还要少买奢侈品,比如最新款手机,并且需要留意自己的日常开销。如果你提前规划好的话,用不到200英镑的成本就可以在周末游玩一些欧洲景点。

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We have been asked to do a talk about our travel story to an audience which we think have the hunger to see the world, explore and learn new things. And for that reason we are super happy! ✨ We are thinking of addressing a lot of things that relates to the lifestyle we’ve chosen but the key one and the one that is very close to our heart is the fact of being able to do what we want to do. ✨ The culture that we come from and the society we live in is full of assumptions. I say that because a lot of things we want to do but we don’t do is on the basis of assumptions that someone might say something. And I get that we are a social animal and we need people around us but honestly if someone is stopping you from living the life you want, may be not worth being around that person. Having said that, a lot of it comes from our parents too. Luckily for us both, we have amazing parents who understand that there are many ways of living life and things don’t have to happen the way it has always happened. ✨ We come from a society where you are expected to finish your education, get a job, get married, have kids, save up for a house, save some for your kids and save some more for their kids. And before you roll your eyes, by no mean we are saying, you shouldn’t start saving, in fact savings get you a long way. But what we are saying is along this saving mentality, live a little. Go see that place you always wanted to, go buy that dress that you’ve been eyeing, go out and have a very fancy dinner. Go out and live right at that moment, because my lovely ones, “Kal ho na ho”! (Ok I had to do that!!) ✨ You need to have harmony. You need to have things in order first, by that we mean, focus on having a career first. Get education, or get trainings. Put yourself in a position where you can choose to do what you want to do with your life. By doing this, you are making yourself independent. You can then do what you want to do, and if anyone tries to stop you, just ask them to mind their own business. Easier said than done, but you honestly need to stop caring about what others might say about you. ✨ #vietnam #hoian #shotoniphone #photography #nepaliblogger #mountains #adventure

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因为很幸运他们的工作没有地点限制,班达里和妻子可以在周四晚上搭乘更便宜的航班,然后周五的时候,他们可以在酒店的房间进行远程工作。
虽然不是所有人都能幸运的拥有一份灵活的工作,但也并不代表人们就不能出门旅行。
班达里解释说:“我们90%的旅行时间是从星期五晚上下班后的伦敦机场开始的,然后我们会在星期天晚上或者是星期一早上回来,直接去上班。”

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We are so grateful for all the lovely messages we get on a daily basis and we get so excited when you guys share our story and contents to your friends and families. It still hasn’t sunk in yet that we have this huge adorable instagram family and you guys actually like what we share. I don’t think it will ever feel normal! ✨ Thank you so much guys for this love and support, you have no idea how happy it makes us when we post a story and then we get all these amazing responses. We will try our best to create great contents and will do in our best not to disappoint you. ✨ . . . . . . . #sofia #bulgaria #nepalicouple #photography #nepaliblogger #cathedral #adventure #nature #nepaliinstagrammer #travelcouple #photooftheday #travelgram #nepal #wanderer #citylife #themorethemarriott #beautifuldestination #wanderlust #travelblogger #travelblogging #roadtrip #wonderful_places #instatravel #travel #tuktuk #nepaliinstagrammers #aleksandernevski #landscape #autumn #europe

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班达里表示:“虽然旅行是不便宜的,但还是有办法来降低成本。其中很大一部分是通过规划和组织。另一个方法是要像当地人一样生活,避免掉入昂贵的旅游陷阱。购买和取款时使用不含外汇手续费的银行卡。”
迄今为止他们最便宜的一次旅行是去西班牙巴塞罗那。机票、酒店和食物的总花费为100英镑。
旅行经验丰富的班达里说,“周末旅行是最便宜的,但关键是要提前预订。”妻子纽帕妮已经规划好了2019年6月前所有的行程,没有一个周末是空闲的。

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Another question we get asked a lot is how being married feels like and our answer to it on most days would be: like nothing, but today I would love to elaborate on that. ✨ We come from a culture which gives husbands the upper hand automatically. Be it moving into his house, or taking his surname, or fasting for him and all that stuffs that ends with “him”. Suddenly a guy who was a “timi/ta” gets upgraded to “hajur”, just on the basis of that “ek chutki sindoor”. Please by no means get offended if you do this, as honestly it’s your life, your rules, your decisions, your marriage. We are no one to comment on it. Here, we are talking about how “we” feel about these things, which again, is our lives, our rules, our decisions, our marriage. ✨ In our household things are done differently. We don’t have a “husband” and a “wife”. We have two people: Shikha and Sangam. We are equals, and no one gets the privileged gender biased upper hand. We don’t have gender based roles in our household. I cook, he cleans, he cooks, I eat :D. We have a similar outlook about life and all four of our parents understand this and their support on this means, we can have a gender neutral family. ✨ I don’t fast for him and he strictly forbids me to, because, honestly the logic of me staying hungry is going to extend his life just doesn’t feel like a truth, now does it? And if it did, we would both fast for each other. ✨ Now, I know things are changing for our generation, but we have a long way to go before this becomes the new normal. And it is upon our generation to teach future generations to be as gender neutral as possible and to show them the benefits of it. It definitely is easier said than done, as there are so many people around us who need convincing and explaining but one small step at a time and we will achieve it. ✨ So, to answer the question: Being married without any gender based roles and previliges, for us, feels like sleepovers with our best friend for the rest of our lives.

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来自尼泊尔的班达里和妻子,在2016年12月开通了他们的Instagram帐户,并和大家分享他们的冒险经历,还在2018年被评为亚洲五大旅行博主之一。
班达里解释说:“我来自尼泊尔,不是出生于富裕家庭,我的父母没有资金带我去度假。 之前,我只去过一次澳大利亚,并没有去过其他任何地方。我们第一次一起旅行是两年前到布拉格的捷克共和国,真的是太棒了。”
班达里和他的妻子除了周末外,每年还会增加几个长途假期。班达里说:“2月份,我们将前往菲律宾和马尔代夫。在我们的名单中,长期以来这些地区都是我们的首选目的地。我们对此很兴奋。”

 

他还补充说:“我们还计划在10月份回到尼泊尔,因为我的父母还在家,纽帕妮还想去波拉波拉岛。坦桑尼亚和日本也在我的旅行名单上。”
这对夫妇对旅行充满热情,他们鼓励大家要努力的追随梦想,他们坚信任何人都可以像他们一样过自己喜欢的生活。

 

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